Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich of the TBDJ Synagogue |
When Rabbi
Yechezkel Freundlich officially assumed the post of spiritual leader of the
Tifereth Beth David Jerusalem (TBDJ) Synagogue in Cote St. Luc this past
August, after serving as an Associate Rabbi for a synagogue in Atlanta, Georgia
since 2007, one of the first conversations he had with a member of the TBDJ
congregation dealt with a matter that was more meteorological than spiritual.
“The weather was
indeed a starting point. It was 88 degrees that day, and he told me that it
must have felt more like the temperature in Atlanta for me. I replied to him
that after being used to a place where the temperature would be 96 degrees with
the humidity at 11 a.m., 88 degrees was gorgeous for me,” said Rabbi Freundlich
during a private luncheon with several journalists early last month.
Born the son of
Holocaust survivors in Louisville, Kentucky and raised in New Jersey, Rabbi
Freundlich (or “Rabbi Y”, as he was affectionately known as by the members of
his congregation in Atlanta), brings to the TBDJ a wealth of experience and
knowledge. He holds three degrees (including a Master of Science Degree in
Professional Counseling from Georgia State University); was part of group in
Atlanta that promoted personal and religious growth through family meetings,
personal development classes and social programming; directed an advanced
nightly Torah study group and held outreach sessions for university students
and preschool parents; developed and produced a “Strengthen Your Marriage”
workshop that was presented across the U.S.; and developed a “3 Minute
Parenting Through the Parsha” online video series.
Rabbi Freundlich,
who replaced Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz, the TBDJ’s spiritual leader for 19 years
who left the synagogue to accept a position in New York, was part of rigorous
selection process that began nearly a year ago. But what was so unique about it
was that the members of the congregation took an active role in the process as
well.
“The committee
decided to involve the members in the selection process,” said TBDJ President
Judah Aspler. “We sent out a survey to them, so they could provide us with the
necessary feedback, and it helped solidify the criteria of what we were looking
for in a spiritual leader.” After the final three candidates were chosen, they
were invited to spend a weekend with the members to give them a hands-on feel
of what the synagogue, its members and the community were all about, and
participated in a wide range of activities from services to classes, to
personally interacting with the members. “Each of our guest Rabbis commented to
me on how impressed they were by what they saw in terms of member involvement,
care and passion for the shul,” said Aspler. “Our candidates were impressed,
and I think we all were as well. We demonstrated who we are, and who we will
be.”
When Rabbi
Freundlich was officially selected to lead the TBDJ, he and his wife Rifki,
along with their seven children ranging in ages from 3 to 16, were given a
large scale Shabbt dinner on August 19 to formally welcome them to the
community, which attracted over 300 people.
Rabbi Freundlich
realizes he has big shoes to fill as the successor to a long-serving and
popular spiritual leader, and wants to make the synagogue a vibrant focal point
of the community. “I know it is very hard to fill the shoes of such a beloved
rabbi, especially the impact Rabbi Steinmetz made on the shul and how he left
it as a very strong place,” he said. “I would like it to be a vibrant place
both socially and spiritually, and engage more people to what we have to offer,
so that it can be an important centre of the community, and an important place
in people’s lives.”
As well, Rabbi
Freundlich and his family relished the exciting challenge of adjusting to a new
way of life in Montreal, especially adapting to its unique culture and learning
how to speak French. “I like Montreal because it’s such a diverse,
multicultural city. And we are bringing our car in from Atlanta so we can get
around the city much easier. And all that road construction? Well, I believe
that’s being done so that the roads can be fixed up especially for me and my
family,” he said. “And I was a big sports fan when I was in Atlanta, so I am looking
forward to finally support a winning team in Montreal!”