Thursday, 26 May 2016

Toni Tennille: A Memoir by Toni Tennille (Taylor Trade, $25)


Throughout the mid and late 1970s, the pop music duo The Captain & Tennille had several chart topping hits with such upbeat songs and love ballads like “Do That To Me One More Time”, “Muskrat Love” and their Grammy Award winning “Love Will Keep Us Together”.

However, as Toni Tennille has written in her recently-released memoir, the story of her life behind the music, especially with her husband and musical partner Daryl “The Captain” Dragon, certainly belied those romantic lyrics that she sang which brought her so much success and fame.

Tennille had a southern belle-type upbringing in Montgomery, Alabama during the pre-Civil Rights 1950s, in a family where music played quite a major role; her father was a popular bandleader during the 1930s (but gave it up to run the family’s furniture store business) and her mother hosted a popular TV talk show in Montgomery during the 50s. Although her father struggled through a bout of alcoholism, he always encouraged Toni and her sisters Jane, Melissa and Louisa to experience the joys of music (even when Toni struggled with a serious injury to her finger at the age of six). With a developed talent for the piano and as a singer, Tennille started singing professionally during the late 50s, when she was a student at Auburn University, with the Auburn Knights Orchestra.

A decade later, when she settled in California and created a musical production called “Mother Earth” that was a major success (but made very little money thanks to a bad deal with its producer), she made a connection with a keyboardist she was about to hire for the show who was to change her life (personally and professionally), for better and for worse.

Enter Daryl Dragon, the son of Carmen Dragon, who was an Oscar-winning Hollywood composer and arranger. They started working together on the “Mother Earth” production, and then joined the Beach Boys’ tour (where Dragon was known as “the Captain of the Keyboards” for his vast musical knowledge and mastery of the keyboards); from there, the duo started doing club gigs across the U.S., and gained a cult following at a club called The Smokehouse. When they privately recorded one of their songs that was popular in their club gigs – “The Way I Want To Touch You” – became a hit on California radio stations, it brought them to the attention of A&M Records, where they signed a recording contract and put together their first album “Love Will Keep Us Together”, where the title track hit the #1 spot on the Billboard charts in the summer of 1975.
This success led to a hit variety TV series on ABC during the 1976-77 season and more hit singles throughout the balance of the decade. However, as Tennille effectively states throughout most of the book, her real life did not mirror the image the public had of her and Dragon as a happily married couple who found happiness through their music and their pet dogs.

Tennille writes quite thoroughly that her life and career with Dragon was one long – yet fruitless – quest to reach out to him and find that emotional core that could have made him a loving husband, yet he never outwardly exhibited (which she also expressed through many of their songs). She attributed Dragon’s distant, yet sometimes bizarre, behaviour to the cavalier way his father treated him, and was highly critical of everything that he ever did, which was never good enough for Carmen Dragon.

“There was no denying that together we had great chemistry; it ignited our musical collaboration into hits and our television show into primetime gold,” she writes. “But, despite all that we had accomplished together, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was somehow still ‘auditioning’ for Daryl’s love.”

As well, she chronicles how living with Dragon’s eccentricities for such a long time – whether it was enduring his bizarre dietary habits that included cooking organic brown rice and steamed vegetables on a hot plate in their hotel room during touring and forsaking eating out at restaurants, or spending countless hours surfacing the internet in his bedroom, searching for the latest conspiracy theories – had quite an almost tragic emotional effect on her. This was climaxed with the emotional meltdown she experienced while performing with the national touring company of “Victor/Victoria”, thanks to the pressures of the constant travelling and performing that went with being part of a touring theatrical company, along with Dragon’s monthly visits, which was more like an exercise in codependency on his part.

Toni Tennille has managed to write a fascinating, brutally honest show business memoir that takes the sheen off one of the most successful recording acts of the late 1970s, and serves as a breath-of-fresh-air in book form, as she comes to terms with the ups and downs of a career as a professional singer/songwriter/musician, and the partner who was supposed to provide that ideal professional and emotional balance, but just came up empty, no matter how much she valiantly tried to bring that out from him.

Love may have kept the Captain & Tennille together musically, but after reading Toni Tennille’s memoir, you painfully discover that love did not keep them together in reality.

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